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	<itunes:summary>Record the Stories of Your Life, tips, how-to, memoir book reviews, by Jerry Waxler</itunes:summary>
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		<title>Is this the year to write your parent&#8217;s memoir?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Jan 2012 12:57:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[To counter the reasons to stall, focus on the many reasons to proceed. When you see their lives unfold as a story, you will gain a deeper insight into their humanity. They had hopes, desires, pressures from their parents, and if they were like most people, they defied their parents in ways that may still cause shame. Informed by this new information, you will understand them and also gain insights to yourself. And during the course of the conversations, you will have an opportunity for intimacy, breaking through some of the posturing that separates parents from children. ]]></description>
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		<title>Life&#8217;s desires create the chapters of our story</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Feb 2010 13:51:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[Lifelong Learning]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Coming of age]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[desire]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Every time I finish reading a memoir, I wonder how the author turned life into a story. After years of trying, I believe I have found a simple formula. Each book follows the author from the seed of some desire, through the journey, until they achieve their goal. Now all I need to do is apply that formula to my own memories. For every desire that propelled me, I search for the path it forced me to travel.]]></description>
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		<title>Catch-up grief: how visiting my brother helped me grow</title>
		<link>http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/grief-brother-grow/</link>
		<comments>http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/grief-brother-grow/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Nov 2009 11:13:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jerrywaxler</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Grief/Loss]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[My own life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Grief]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grieving]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[memoir]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[memory]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Psychology]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Writing]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[As I write my memoir, these 32 years later, I discover the gaping hole his death created, as if I was postponing my grief until I was mature enough to better understand what happened. I now watch our relationship unfold in slow motion, and this time I intend to learn as much as possible about what happened and what I missed.]]></description>
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		<title>Fearlessly Confessing the Dark Side of Memory in this Memoir of Sexual Abuse</title>
		<link>http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/memoir-sexual-abuse/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Aug 2009 11:18:34 +0000</pubDate>
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				<category><![CDATA[Book Review]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Courage to Write]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[child abuse]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[healing]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Trauma]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Some dark memories are so compelling they draw you in and frighten or upset you. If you try to seal them back in their crypt, they remain squirming in the dark. Or you can face them fearlessly, and stay with them until you can shape them into a story. By using your words to describe them, instead of someone else's, you take away their power.]]></description>
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		<title>The Birth of an Adult Storyteller</title>
		<link>http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/senior-adult-storyteller/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2009 12:10:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jerrywaxler</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Aging]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[motivation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[social anxiety]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Toastmasters]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[When I see wrinkles, around my own eyes or someone else's, I think of all the experiences hidden behind them, decades of life now strewn throughout the vast tundra of the mind. If only I could know those memories, they might teach me important lessons and they certainly would bring deeper appreciation for the journey. What had those eyes seen? But memories are unknowable in their scattered and disorganized state, and until recently, I was one of the multitudes who had no inkling of how to convert a lifetime of memories into a story. Now, as I scan my life, I think I see the reason.]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>8</slash:comments>
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		<itunes:subtitle>When I see wrinkles, around my own eyes or someone else's, I think of all the experiences hidden behind them, decades of life now strewn throughout the vast tundra of the mind. If only I could know those memories, they might teach me important lesso[...]</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>When I see wrinkles, around my own eyes or someone else's, I think of all the experiences hidden behind them, decades of life now strewn throughout the vast tundra of the mind. If only I could know those memories, they might teach me important lessons and they certainly would bring deeper appreciation for the journey. What had those eyes seen? But memories are unknowable in their scattered and disorganized state, and until recently, I was one of the multitudes who had no inkling of how to convert a lifetime of memories into a story. Now, as I scan my life, I think I see the reason.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:keywords>Aging, Family</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:author>Jerry Waxler</itunes:author>
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		<title>Reading error teaches a writing lesson &#8211; or &#8211; A good character is hard to define</title>
		<link>http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/character-development-lesson/</link>
		<comments>http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/character-development-lesson/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Apr 2009 12:45:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jerrywaxler</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Literary Non-fiction]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[My own life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Writing Workshop]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[character development]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Creative Nonfiction]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Part of relating to a good story is to feel a personal connection with its characters. Now I need to develop the knack of portraying the people in my life onto the pages in my memoir. I have attended workshops, and read how-to books about this skill, but it has been eluding me until recently when I stumbled upon a valuable insight. By incorrectly reading a series of short stories, I had an aha-moment about how reader and writer work together to form characters. This discovery will help me bring my characters to life.]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Part of relating to a good story is to feel a personal connection with its characters. Now I need to develop the knack of portraying the people in my life onto the pages in my memoir. I have attended workshops, and read how-to books about this skill[...]</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Part of relating to a good story is to feel a personal connection with its characters. Now I need to develop the knack of portraying the people in my life onto the pages in my memoir. I have attended workshops, and read how-to books about this skill, but it has been eluding me until recently when I stumbled upon a valuable insight. By incorrectly reading a series of short stories, I had an aha-moment about how reader and writer work together to form characters. This discovery will help me bring my characters to life.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Jerry Waxler</itunes:author>
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		<title>The powerful story of an ordinary woman</title>
		<link>http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/story-ordinary-woman-memoir/</link>
		<comments>http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/story-ordinary-woman-memoir/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Feb 2009 14:47:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jerrywaxler</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Courage to Write]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[As I ponder the memoir Off Kilter, I find another dimension that offers me uplifting hope and optimism. By writing her story, Linda has performed a remarkable service to herself and her readers. She has broken the code of silence, and exposed her family dynamics to the world, where we can all compare notes. In a sense, she has taken the high road of assertiveness, not only in her relationship to her mother, but more broadly, as a responsible neighbor and friend.]]></description>
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		<title>Give Thanks for Your Family Stories</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Nov 2008 12:37:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jerrywaxler</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Family Memoirs]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Listening, as the saying goes, is an act of love, and your willingness to open up and let their stories in will create a lovely, kind, and energetic atmosphere. But the old conversation patterns have a mind of their own. Instead of hoping the energy will shift, take a leadership role. To steer the conversation in a new direction, you need to prepare.]]></description>
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		<itunes:summary>Listening, as the saying goes, is an act of love, and your willingness to open up and let their stories in will create a lovely, kind, and energetic atmosphere. But the old conversation patterns have a mind of their own. Instead of hoping the energy will shift, take a leadership role. To steer the conversation in a new direction, you need to prepare.</itunes:summary>
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		<title>Listening Is An Act of Love</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Dec 2007 12:32:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jerrywaxler</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Book Review]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Dave Isay]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[by Jerry Waxler Last week, when I was visiting WHYY studio in Philadelphia I saw the mobile StoryCorps van and interviewed facilitator Mike Rauch about what StoryCorps does. It intrigued me so much, I went back to Philly last night to hear Dave Isay the founder of StoryCorps speak at the National Constitution Center. He [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Tell stories for more thankful holiday gatherings</title>
		<link>http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/tell-stories-for-more-thankful-holiday-gatherings/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Nov 2007 11:28:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jerrywaxler</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Storytelling]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[clan]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[storyteller]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[by Jerry Waxler The holidays bring together a mélange of generations, family units, and significant others, bonded by blood, marriage, love, and shared life experience. Then why did I feel more dread than joy? I didn&#8217;t understand my own reactions to the holidays until I started writing family stories, and then the answer leapt off [...]]]></description>
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