http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog Hundreds of Essays and Interviews to Help You Read and Write Memoirs Tue, 07 Feb 2012 12:39:11 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 2006-2007 jerrywaxler@yahoo.com (Jerry Waxler) jerrywaxler@yahoo.com (Jerry Waxler) Self-help 1440 http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/wp-content/plugins/podpress/images/LearnMemoirCoverFront-small.jpg http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog 144 144 Reading and writing memoirs. Record the Stories of Your Life, tips, how-to, memoir book reviews, by Jerry Waxler memoir, writers, self-help, book-reviews, essays Jerry Waxler Jerry Waxler jerrywaxler@yahoo.com no no http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/gwartney-memoir/ http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/gwartney-memoir/#comments Thu, 31 Mar 2011 12:50:48 +0000 jerrywaxler http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/?p=1146 http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/gwartney-memoir/feed/ 0 http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/matt-polly-interview/ http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/matt-polly-interview/#comments Wed, 06 Jan 2010 12:10:29 +0000 jerrywaxler http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/?p=694 http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/matt-polly-interview/feed/ 0 http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/annotated-list-memoirs/ http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/annotated-list-memoirs/#comments Fri, 23 Oct 2009 10:29:08 +0000 jerrywaxler http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/?p=611 http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/annotated-list-memoirs/feed/ 5 http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/color-water-mcbride/ http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/color-water-mcbride/#comments Tue, 08 Sep 2009 11:49:52 +0000 jerrywaxler http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/?p=582 http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/color-water-mcbride/feed/ 6 http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/interviewing-alzheimers/ http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/interviewing-alzheimers/#comments Tue, 19 May 2009 11:39:36 +0000 jerrywaxler http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/?p=499 http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/interviewing-alzheimers/feed/ 3 http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/fugitive-days-memoir-vietnam/ http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/fugitive-days-memoir-vietnam/#comments Thu, 19 Mar 2009 13:46:52 +0000 jerrywaxler http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/?p=435 http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/fugitive-days-memoir-vietnam/feed/ 2 0:09:09 by Jerry Waxler In the 60′s, I vigorously protested the Vietnam War, but like most Americans I thought the organization called the Weather Underground had gone too far. Without knowing many details, I associated them with violent, irrational e[...] by Jerry Waxler In the 60′s, I vigorously protested the Vietnam War, but like most Americans I thought the organization called the Weather Underground had gone too far. Without knowing many details, I associated them with violent, irrational extremism. So I was surprised to hear that one of the founders of that organization was not only a free man. He was an acclaimed educator. I first heard about Bill Ayers during the 2008 presidential campaign when television ads implied that Ayers’ criticism of U.S. policy in Vietnam somehow tainted Barack Obama. The publicity intrigued me. I wanted to know more. After hearing an excellent radio interview with Bill Ayers, I decided to read his memoir “Fugitive Days.” Reading the book prodded me to review rusty old parts of my own beliefs. When Ayers was a young man, his outrage against the war drove him to the brink of anarchy. In his memoir, “Fugitive Days,” he chronicles his violent thoughts and actions in almost poetic detail. Even after reading the memoir, it’s hard for me to decide if he was a hero who risked his life to save the world from the insanity of war, or a mad child, a criminal, bent on imposing his will on society. And therein lays the power of the memoir. It shows his world as it was, not as it ought to have been, allowing me to see for myself and ask my own questions. The description of life through his eyes provided a deeper understanding of the world than I could gain from sound bites and stereotypes. Are young people idealistic or simple minded? When I was young, adults taught me that people are supposed to be kind, generous, and empathetic. I desperately wanted to live in a world driven by these ideals. Too often, the difference between the world they preached and the one they actually offered made me angry. So I protested, trying to badger them into following their own principles. However, demanding change turned out to be far more complex than I first had hoped. After I participated in my first riot, I realized I was contributing to the very chaos that I wanted to stop. The protest movement became increasingly strident at my alma mater, University of Wisconsin in Madison, until a climax in the1970 bombing of the Army Math Research Center. At 3 AM, when the bombers expected the building to be empty, a young physics researcher unrelated to the Army or the war was killed by the blast, exposing the dark side of extreme protest. More disturbing still, moral outrage against government policies can be used to justify all sorts of violent protest. For example, the Oklahoma City bombers claimed they were obeying higher principles, a justification that comes all too close to the reasoning of the Weather Underground. According to Ayers, his group never took part in an action that resulted in a death, so the book does not justify murder. In fact, the book does very little justifying at all. Rather than analyzing his actions, or even looking back at them with the hindsight of an older man, Ayers offers an immersion experience in that period. Just as you wouldn’t expect to see cell phones in a movie about the Vietnam War, Ayers also tries to keep his thoughts appropriate for a young man during the height of the Vietnam war protests. Feminism was still in the future In Bill Ayers’ time the feminist movement had not yet been born, so during his story, men were freely using women and justifying it with all sorts of theoretical excuses. Women were starting to complain, and in a rare nod to the future development of the feminist movement, Ayers hints at the tensions coming to the surface. Structure is interesting: In Medias Res The organizational structure of the book is interesting. The opening scene pulls me in with a bang. Ayers and his cronies are on the run, and they hear about the death of a comrade, letting me know they are all in mortal danger. This technique of “in medias res,” or starting in the midst of t[...] 60's Jerry Waxler no no http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/clown-story-writing-prompts/ http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/clown-story-writing-prompts/#comments Tue, 27 Jan 2009 12:58:08 +0000 jerrywaxler http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/?p=377 http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/clown-story-writing-prompts/feed/ 0 http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/ideas-change-memoirs/ http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/ideas-change-memoirs/#comments Mon, 05 Jan 2009 13:30:11 +0000 jerrywaxler http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/?p=343 http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/ideas-change-memoirs/feed/ 6 http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/thanksgiving-family-stories/ http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/thanksgiving-family-stories/#comments Tue, 25 Nov 2008 12:37:48 +0000 jerrywaxler http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/?p=301 http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/thanksgiving-family-stories/feed/ 0 0:06:50 Listening, as the saying goes, is an act of love, and your willingness to open up and let their stories in will create a lovely, kind, and energetic atmosphere. But the old conversation patterns have a mind of their own. Instead of hoping the energy[...] Listening, as the saying goes, is an act of love, and your willingness to open up and let their stories in will create a lovely, kind, and energetic atmosphere. But the old conversation patterns have a mind of their own. Instead of hoping the energy will shift, take a leadership role. To steer the conversation in a new direction, you need to prepare. Family Jerry Waxler no no http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/how-awakening-pain-can-heal-it/ http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/how-awakening-pain-can-heal-it/#comments Sat, 06 Sep 2008 11:00:48 +0000 jerrywaxler http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/how-awakening-pain-can-heal-it/ http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/how-awakening-pain-can-heal-it/feed/ 3 0:00:01 Story moves you to the next step Instead of keeping memories trapped in their original form, free them up with story. 60's, Trauma Jerry Waxler no no