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	<itunes:summary>Record the Stories of Your Life, tips, how-to, memoir book reviews, by Jerry Waxler</itunes:summary>
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		<title>Recovering Self-concept after Addiction</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Apr 2011 12:04:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[However, because of the shame associated with the loss of control, they continue to shield themselves from the public. Perhaps that is changing. In the memoir age, such walls of secrecy and shame are breaking down. Memoirs give addicted individuals a voice, turning the sorrow of their fall into a more complete story which celebrates the courage of return.  <a href="http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/self-concept-addiction/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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		<title>Self-concept and memoirs: The power of purpose</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Apr 2011 12:53:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[To make your memoir as compelling as possible, search for your central mission. What drove you from day to day? When you find it, you will be giving yourself as well as your readers a gift. The wind in your sails that has propelled you through the years, also propels your reader through the pages. <a href="http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/self-concept-purpose/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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		<title>Recovering Self-concept after Trauma</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Mar 2011 11:55:09 +0000</pubDate>
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				<category><![CDATA[Heal from Abuse]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Identity ought to be a stable thing. Once you find it, you should be set for life. But in reality, your ideas about yourself undergo continuous adaptation. We all adapt to the slow changes that unfold over years. And sometimes, our peaceful self-image is threatened by assaults so deep and swift they shake the foundations of sanity. Betrayal, divorce, job loss, combat trauma,  crime, abuse, disease, or death of a loved one can rip apart our trust that we know how to live in the world.  <a href="http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/self-concept-trauma/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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		<title>Self-concept and memoir &#8211; launching problems and identifying with a group</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Nov 2010 12:40:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In an ideal world, by the time we leave home, or "launch" into the world, we have a coherent sense of purpose. But many of us must try to find our place in the world armed only with a blurred picture or even a damaged one. When the story that we developed during Coming of Age doesn't lead us towards satisfaction, we must evolve. Some authors recount long struggles to replace their confusing or misleading original self-image with a more coherent one.  <a href="http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/self-concept-launch-group/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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		<title>Who Am I? 10 ways memoir reading and writing helps clarify identity</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Sep 2010 12:09:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Memoirs about Coming of Age explore the period when a young person tries to understand who they are supposed to become. First they learn about themselves from parents, siblings, neighbors, and friends. Then they crawl, stumble, and race in various directions, until they finally find ground firm enough to support their weight. Here are several Coming of Age memoirs that have shown me how other people did it. <a href="http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/self-concept-coming-of-age/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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		<title>Color of Water, a memoir of race, family and fabulous writing</title>
		<link>http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/color-water-mcbride/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Sep 2009 11:49:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jerrywaxler</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[To write for strangers we're supposed to limit ourselves to tighter timelines that focus on one particular aspect or period. Despite the broader scope of "Color of Water," the book was fabulously successful, selling more than a million copies. How did this apparent autobiography earn such a prominent position as a highly acclaimed memoir? <a href="http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/color-water-mcbride/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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		<title>Mistaken identification &#8211; a memoir of injustice and redemption</title>
		<link>http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/cotton-thompson-memoir/</link>
		<comments>http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/cotton-thompson-memoir/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2009 13:29:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jerrywaxler</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[At the time of the rape, he was actually home asleep on the sofa, a fact sworn to by members of his family. The all-white jury weighed their testimony against Jennifer Thompson's positive identification. "That's him," she said under oath, and so Cotton went to jail. <a href="http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/cotton-thompson-memoir/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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		<title>Identity moves too in Doreen Orion&#8217;s travel memoir</title>
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		<comments>http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/identity-moves-memoir/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Sep 2008 10:38:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jerrywaxler</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Look across decades, and see how your roles evolved. By staying open to the various ways people see you and you see yourself, you will portray your identity not as a static thing, but a thing in motion. <a href="http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/identity-moves-memoir/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Character Arc creates memorable journey</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>When two doctors go for a year long "retirement" are they retirees, doctors. Identity is a moving target in any memoir.</itunes:summary>
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		<title>Iranian in America makes love and laughter</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Feb 2008 13:18:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jerrywaxler</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[While Firoozeh's neighbors in the United States weren't sure how to relate to her, I had no such confusion. She took me into her confidence and I saw for myself who she was, thanks to her superb command of the English language, and her clever, ironic insights. "She's one of us." I thought. And even better, as a recent entrant into the melting pot, she could share her observations about contrasts between two cultures more clearly than someone limited to seeing things only from within one. <a href="http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/iranian-in-america-makes-love-and-laughter/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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