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		<title>Recovering Self-concept after Trauma</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Mar 2011 11:55:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Identity ought to be a stable thing. Once you find it, you should be set for life. But in reality, your ideas about yourself undergo continuous adaptation. We all adapt to the slow changes that unfold over years. And sometimes, our peaceful self-image is threatened by assaults so deep and swift they shake the foundations of sanity. Betrayal, divorce, job loss, combat trauma,  crime, abuse, disease, or death of a loved one can rip apart our trust that we know how to live in the world. ]]></description>
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		<title>More Q&amp;A with Sue William Silverman on confessions, memoirs, and the art of writing</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2009 12:18:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[For me, the best way to recollect the details of past events is to submerge myself in sensory imagery. For example, say I want to write about a birthday party in sixth grade.  Maybe I remember some broad brushstrokes of the party but can't recall as many details as I'd like.  In order to do so, I begin by asking myself the following: what did the birthday party sound like, taste like, feel like, look like, smell like?]]></description>
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		<title>Author Sue William Silverman Talks About Confessions, Memoirs, and the Craft of Writing</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 11:47:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Silverman is a careful thinker, picking apart the process of memoir writing, intensely studying each part, and then not merely putting them back together but, showing the reader how to do it, too. I am impressed by the generosity with which she offers advice, insight, and enthusiasm. I love her treatment of metaphor, her thoughts about confession, and the excellent explanation of the difference between memoir and autobiography.]]></description>
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		<title>Fearlessly Confessing the Dark Side of Memory in this Memoir of Sexual Abuse</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Aug 2009 11:18:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Some dark memories are so compelling they draw you in and frighten or upset you. If you try to seal them back in their crypt, they remain squirming in the dark. Or you can face them fearlessly, and stay with them until you can shape them into a story. By using your words to describe them, instead of someone else's, you take away their power.]]></description>
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		<title>Writing for Community &#8211; or &#8211; When Going Public Can Save Dignity and Lives</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Apr 2009 11:33:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The testimonials served a different purpose than most memoirs. Rather than being selected for literary merit or completeness of story, these pieces were selected for their moral courage and willingness to communicate. And while this particular book may not reach the best seller charts, its effects radiate far beyond these particular individuals.]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>The testimonials served a different purpose than most memoirs. Rather than being selected for literary merit or completeness of story, these pieces were selected for their moral courage and willingness to communicate. And while this particular book [...]</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>The testimonials served a different purpose than most memoirs. Rather than being selected for literary merit or completeness of story, these pieces were selected for their moral courage and willingness to communicate. And while this particular book may not reach the best seller charts, its effects radiate far beyond these particular individuals.</itunes:summary>
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		<title>Mothers and Daughters Don&#8217;t Always Mix</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Oct 2008 13:03:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jerrywaxler</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This book demonstrates the power of persistence. By crafting the story until she got it right, Linda Joy Myers discovered amidst the wreckage of that little girl's childhood an intact human being, complete with courage, confidence, and dreams. Storytelling transformed her heartbreaking childhood into one stage in a much longer saga. Her suffering and then her healing provide both a tragedy and an inspiration about the wisdom a human can achieve in one life time.]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>This book demonstrates the power of persistence. By crafting the story until she got it right, Linda Joy Myers discovered amidst the wreckage of that little girl's childhood an intact human being, complete with courage, confidence, and dreams. Story[...]</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>This book demonstrates the power of persistence. By crafting the story until she got it right, Linda Joy Myers discovered amidst the wreckage of that little girl's childhood an intact human being, complete with courage, confidence, and dreams. Storytelling transformed her heartbreaking childhood into one stage in a much longer saga. Her suffering and then her healing provide both a tragedy and an inspiration about the wisdom a human can achieve in one life time.</itunes:summary>
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		<title>Who protects the children? Memoir by Ashley Rhodes-Courter</title>
		<link>http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/who-protects-children-rhodes-courter/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2008 12:25:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[by Jerry Waxler When parents and extended family are unable to take care of a child, &#8220;society&#8221; is supposed to pick up the burden. I hope that happens, but I didn&#8217;t know the details until I read Ashley Rhodes-Courter&#8217;s beautifully written memoir, &#8220;Three Little Words.&#8221; Ashley is qualified to speak authoritatively about the fate of [...]]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Foster care as explained by a "graduate" in her memoir "Three Little Words."</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>The foster care system, crucial safety-net for kids, could be improved by learning from this first-hand account from a recent "graduate" Ashley Rhodes-Courter</itunes:summary>
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		<title>Memoir author talks about writing, sharing, and healing</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Mar 2008 09:58:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jerrywaxler</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Bill Strickland's memoir, "Ten Points," weaves together three things: a promise he made to his daughter, a summer of cycling to fulfill that promise, and his insights into the wounds of his own childhood. To learn more about his experience of digging so deeply into his past and then sharing it with the public, I asked Bill Strickland to answer a few questions about writing and publishing his memoir. Here is the second part of the interview I conducted with him.]]></description>
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		<title>Memoir of Redemption: Author Shares His Writing Experience</title>
		<link>http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/bill-strickland-memoir-author-interview-part-1/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Feb 2008 12:51:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jerrywaxler</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I recently reviewed Bill Strickland's memoir Ten Points. It strikes me as being a "perfect memoir" - it's a great read, it has a powerful sense of love and redemption, and the author opens up generously into his inner process. In order to delve even deeper, I asked him answer a few questions. Just as he was generous in his memoir, he was also generous in sharing his insights about writing it. This is the first of a two part interview.]]></description>
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