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		<title>Parent&#8217;s Memoir Part 3b, Guide for Ghost Writer&#8217;s Interview</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Jan 2012 12:30:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Over the years, you have learned to avoid topics your parents prefer not talking about. In order to get the story,  you need to break these taboos. Consider James McBride's memoir "Color of Water." His mother had angrily told him to mind his own business whenever he asked her about his past. As she grew older, he realized her past was going to die with her and he grew increasingly insistent. ]]></description>
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		<title>Ghost Wrote Her Mother&#8217;s Memoir, Part 3</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Dec 2011 13:07:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Linda Austin: I learned why my mother behaves the way she does, which is one reason why I strongly encourage telling life stories. What happens to us affects who we are and how we behave. Once I cried with my mother while parked in the lot of the Social Security building. She had told me about some incidents with her mother, and suddenly I saw how that affected her own behavior toward me. I so wished I had known this long ago so I would have understood her own foibles and not have been so angry. I felt so bad for not understanding.]]></description>
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		<title>Parent&#8217;s Memoir: Finding Roots Across Generations</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Dec 2011 13:05:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Is it co-authored or ghost written? Is it a memoir or a biography? These distinctions blur into artistic interpretations rather than hard definitions. When James McBride wrote about his own search for his mother's past in "Color of Water," he stayed inside his own point of view, with occasional well-marked shifts into his mother's voice. In Cherry Blossoms, Linda Austin drops out of the frame and lets her mother tell the story. ]]></description>
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		<title>Revealing Death and Other Courageous Acts of Life</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 May 2011 11:38:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Then it was my job to turn the audience's attention back to their own goals. I realized there wasn't enough time to conduct a real workshop, but in the small amount of time available, I wanted to convince everyone that the problems of writing a memoir are solvable. "When you look back through your memories, they fly out at you in a variety of bits and pieces, entangled in time, and at first only make sense to you. As you write scenes and accumulate them in sequence, they begin to take shape. As you see the material of your life take shape on the page, you gradually tame the flood of memories and begin to craft them into a story worth reading."]]></description>
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		<title>Conflict with Parent Fleshes in Authentic Character</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Dec 2010 11:24:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of the most common complaints I hear in a memoir workshop is about the difficulty of writing honest feelings about parents. I encourage writers to push through their reluctance. Writing about them will reveal the relationships in new ways. Even if this material does not appear within the frame of your proposed story, you may find a wealth of material that can help you flesh in your own character, and sharpen your understanding of the conflicts that drive you later in life.]]></description>
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		<title>Courage to Write, Passion to Read</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jun 2010 11:50:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Before I even purchased the book, I knew from the blurb that the author was an English Literature professor at the University of Massachusetts at Dartmouth. I knew that "Courage to Walk," was about the crippling and potentially deadly illness of a second son, and I knew about the death of Robert and Linda's oldest son, Jonathan. ]]></description>
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		<title>Interview with Robert Waxler, English Professor and memoir author, Part 1</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 25 May 2010 11:22:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jerrywaxler</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I started writing in a notebook right away, not because I was thinking about publishing a book, but because I knew that writing itself would be helpful for me, and I wanted a record of the experience and my thoughts about the experience. I wrote as the events unfolded, and I had no clear idea, from day to day, how these experiences would work out, whether Jeremy would recover, the extent of his recovery, the daily impact on all of us in the family, and so on. In addition, Jeremy's suffering was compounded for me by the haunting memories of what had happened to Jonathan.]]></description>
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		<title>A memoir of mourning helps make sense of loss</title>
		<link>http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/memoir-mourning-son/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 May 2010 10:27:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jerrywaxler</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Now I realize after reading "Losing Jonathan" that I loved the Waxlers' memoir for similar reasons. Like Kate Braestrup they were on a quest to wrest their sanity back from the abyss. At first they were thirsty for support from their community. Then, after five years, Linda suggested, "We should try to write a book. It would be a way of honoring Jonathan's life. Sustaining it." The suggestion reflected Linda's desire now to give back to the community some of the strength they had given her. And the vehicle for their gift was a book.]]></description>
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		<title>The Birth of an Adult Storyteller</title>
		<link>http://memorywritersnetwork.com/blog/senior-adult-storyteller/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2009 12:10:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When I see wrinkles, around my own eyes or someone else's, I think of all the experiences hidden behind them, decades of life now strewn throughout the vast tundra of the mind. If only I could know those memories, they might teach me important lessons and they certainly would bring deeper appreciation for the journey. What had those eyes seen? But memories are unknowable in their scattered and disorganized state, and until recently, I was one of the multitudes who had no inkling of how to convert a lifetime of memories into a story. Now, as I scan my life, I think I see the reason.]]></description>
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		<title>Yin and Yang of Storytelling &#8211; Dramatic Tension of Opposites</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Mar 2009 11:29:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Each story shows characters caught in the emotions and circumstances of ordinary life, and yet despite their ordinariness, I feel engaged in their struggles, turning the page to learn more. As I seek to understand how Susan Muaddi Darraj has accomplished her hold on me, I notice a particular feature of the writing. She has superbly tapped the power of opposites.]]></description>
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		<itunes:summary>Each story shows characters caught in the emotions and circumstances of ordinary life, and yet despite their ordinariness, I feel engaged in their struggles, turning the page to learn more. As I seek to understand how Susan Muaddi Darraj has accomplished her hold on me, I notice a particular feature of the writing. She has superbly tapped the power of opposites.</itunes:summary>
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